Reason for Cheating

I was just browsing through the web when I came across this! So basically it's meaning full so yea, READ ON!

9 Reasons Why People Cheat In A Relationship.

1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat. It's tough to keep that edge throughout the relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.
>> My say is that when something kinky looses it's sparks, that's when you'll thirst for the exiting beginning you've experienced.

2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like an independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.
>>I'd say that when one is too dependent on you, you tend to feel pressured by the responsibilities held upon you. Therefore, you'll search for a more relaxed relationship where YOU can depend on HIM.

3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.
>>Where confusion is concerned, many gets mistaken when you have to choose between two && both have it's own good qualities. So, why not have both?

4. Because They Let You
If any guy ever cheated on me, I'd break up with him immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back.
>> What he says here is so true. Taking advantage of a partner leads you to cheat.

5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.
>>Everyone wants to have protection from someone. The need of being loved is a strong drive.

6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.
>> THIS KIND OF ATTITUDE IS PLAIN OL' WRONG, but its true.

7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you.
>>Like me, I the attention I get. When being true to one, I get less affection from people and therefore wonder if I'm still attractive.

8. The Thrill
Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, and creating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.
>> These are risk-takers.

9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.
>> I think both partners should work up a rule of dating or some sort. You know, to make things clear.

Basically cheaters are a victim of the mind. My guess is that if you and him/her have a strongly based relationship. You might be able to put through everything and work things out.

xoxo, ever yours,
Virginie Laurency.